A November wording conversation can become complicated when families assume there is only one correct opening line. The invitation should represent the people involved thoughtfully, but it does not need to publish a financial accounting of the wedding. Begin by discussing what you want the wording to communicate.
Decide whether to name hosts
Some couples want to name parents or other hosts. Others prefer an opening led by their own names. “Together with their families” can acknowledge a wider group without listing everyone. Choose a structure that fits the situation rather than forcing people into a formula that does not feel right.
Confirm preferred names and relationships
If you name family members, check their preferred names, titles and spelling. Sensitive circumstances are better discussed privately than solved by guessing in the proof. A designer can help organize the wording once those personal decisions are made, but should not have to infer them from an incomplete guest list.
Together with their families, Jordan Ellis and Avery Morgan invite you to celebrate their wedding.
This illustrative line is one option, not an etiquette requirement. A couple-hosted version can simply begin with the couple's names and continue with the same invitation sentence.
Protect the hierarchy
A long hosting line should not push the event details into unreadable text. If several names need to appear, discuss spacing and format early. A larger or differently proportioned card may be more effective than shrinking every line to preserve a template.
Read the wording aloud and share it with the people whose names appear before approving production. The best solution is clear, respectful and comfortable for the couple, while still leaving guests with an easy-to-follow invitation.
Make it your own
Explore our wedding invitations to see how your colors and wording can come together. Contact White Tie Designs to talk through your project, samples and current production timing.